Both boys back under 1 roof. The noise is in full swing. I am not going to lie, it helps keep my mind off things. Laughing, arguing, talking.. They adore each other. Their bond is a wonderful thing to watch. They both call each other "Bubby" and they live for one another. I have always been amazed at the two of them and I know they are enjoying this time back together. We did a little back to school shopping today. I just kept thinking, I should be about to give birth when school starts. I had plans for Sylas. Staying home with me and then staying with Mimi while I worked. Going to eat lunch with the boys, shopping on Fridays when I am off...Plans I can't make happen anymore. I go to see Dr. Taylor Wednesday. I am anxious about what he can tell me about the pathology report. I have so many questions, but I am trying to prepare myself he may not be able to answer them.
I have to prepare my emotional roller coaster self, that changes will come and go. Ike goes back Sunday for 3 more weeks with his mom, before he's home for good, school will start, I will go back to work, holidays will come, and the truth remains the same. God's ways are not my ways and I am still not in control. It's a part of reality, I am finally coming to terms with. I wanted so bad to hide the truth and fight with reality. That may sound awful, but I don't want to face the fact that this loss is greater than anyone will ever know. I am healing, but not the wound is so fresh and the scar is great. I will make it, because that's what I have to do.
God, may I always know you are in control. May, I not get ahead of you or your will. I pray that I am the mother and wife that you have planned for me. That they never doubt my undying love for them. Grant me peace in the middle of my insanity.
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